What if someone fell in love with you

18 Signs He's Secretly and Deeply In Love With You

While we'd all like to know if a man secretly loves us, it's not that easy to find out.

The truth is, you have to go out of your way to see if someone is in love with you, or if they just want to have fun with you and then leave you because they found another girl.

On the other hand, men don't often reveal their true feelings, and they are not as open as women about their emotions.

But there is a way!

You can find out a lot about them and how they actually feel about you just by paying attention to their body language.

So, if you want to know if he's secretly in love with you, pay attention to the man and his behavior when he's with you.

I am sure that you will learn a lot about him and that you will get an answer to the burning question.

To make it easier for you, I've made a list of the most common things men do when they're into someone, so I suggest you keep reading.

1. He will be there on time when he says it

If a man is secretly in love with you, he won't fool you.

If he says he'll be there at 8:00 p.m., for example, he'll be there at 7:50 a.m. sharp. Just to avoid having to wait for him.

This is a sign that he respects you and that he wants you to feel good.

He wants you to feel unique and he will do anything to give you the things you need.

If you've been lucky enough to hang out with a gentleman like this, you should know that he knows what he's doing and that he's a really good guy.

Basically, you can see from the start whether someone is a nice guy or not, and this one is pretty promising, right ladies?

2. He maintains intensive eye contact

Sometimes when you're on a first date it can be a little embarrassing to have a guy looking at you all the time, but know that this is actually a good sign.

If he looks you straight in the eyes, it means that he really likes you and that he enjoys spending time with you.

If he goes a step further and holds your hand while he says something and looks you in the eye, it means he's madly in love with you and he can't help it.

If so, it's up to you whether you give him hope or just ignore him.

If he's a really nice guy I suggest you give him a chance.

I am sure you will not regret it!

3. He touches you "accidentally"

Men can be pretty sneaky at times, you know?

If he touches you and then says it wasn't unintentional, it can be a sign that he secretly loves you but is afraid to admit it.

Men often do this just to be close to you and to feel your skin against theirs, but they can't seem to find any other way to do it.

So, the next time a guy who's been watching you for a while does something like this, you can be sure that he's up to something and that he likes you as more than a good friend.

Don't be too hard on him and don't tell him you know what he's trying to do, pretend you don't know and just let him do his best to win you over.

It'll be pretty fun!

4. He asks you questions

When a guy secretly loves you, he will ask you so many questions because he wants to get to know you better.

Not only will he ask about your personal belongings, but he will also share some things from his life with you.

You will hear him tell you about his friends and the places he has traveled to with them.

If he's trying to crack some jokes about himself, it's a proven sign that he's into you and now just wants to know more about your feelings for him.

He will always make you feel comfortable when you are with him just for you to agree to a second date with him.

You have to admit that he's intelligent, and if he continues to use his brain for good things, you should stick with him.

5. He's clumsy when he's with you

Men tend to be clumsy in front of the women they stand for.

The reason for this is that they want to be at their best but can't because they are too nervous.

If a man is clumsy in front of you all the time, it may be a sign that he is secretly in love with you but doesn't know how to admit it.

I know this is crazy.

But the bottom line is that he can't help it and he can't control his emotions.

So, don't make it too hard for him because he's already struggling to impress you.

6. He's approaching you

If you notice that he is approaching you while he is trying to explain something to you, you should know that he is doing so without even realizing it.

Men do this when they are secretly in love with someone but don't have the courage to confess their feelings.

I mean, it's not the easiest thing in the world to approach a woman you like and tell her how you feel about her, so you should understand his situation.

Don't forget: he really loves you secretly.

So if you see nothing happening, try to make it easier for him and do something that can get him to take the first step.

7. He remembers even the smallest details about you

Does he remember your dog's name even if you mentioned him only once?

This means he cares about you, the people, and things around you, so he will try to find out more about you.

If a man has a secret crush on a woman, he will want to know more about her.

Whether these things are meaningless or very important, if a man is into you he will try to remember them all.

And you'll be pretty surprised if he mentions something you told him a long time ago.

This is just a sign that he is listening carefully and that you have been his priority for a long time.

8. He doesn't mention or look at other girls

When you are on a first date, it is very important for every girl that her date doesn't look at other girls.

Can you imagine a situation where you go out and your date flirts with the hot waitress all evening and tries to seduce her by sending her a few kisses?

It would be a date from hell, but trust me, there are guys like that.

But thank god your man is the exact opposite and he knows how to show that he likes you more than just a girlfriend.

If you are lucky enough to meet someone like him who can make you feel like you are special, you should stop thinking about it and do whatever you can to keep him because he is obviously a dream man.

9. He acts like a real gentleman when he's with you

You enter the restaurant with your date and he rushes to the table so he can pull out the chair for you.

This is a sign that chivalry is not extinct and that there are still people out there who know how to make a woman feel special.

It is obvious that he wants to do beautiful things for you that can tell you that he is secretly in love with you.

Maybe he just needs more time to open up to you, or he's just waiting for the perfect moment.

But no matter what, you will know that he has really good intentions and that he wants to fight for you.

And unfortunately, guys like him are pretty rare these days.

10. He is active on your social media accounts

If he likes every photo or thought you post, it can be a sign that he is secretly in love with you.

By liking all of these things on social media sites, he wants to tell you that he is there and that he supports you.

And yes, he thinks you are pretty. I am sure that as soon as you post it, he will stare at your photo and admire your beautiful eyes, smile and charisma.

Trust me, that's enough for him to fall in love with you, so if you like him, show him you're interested.

This will boost his ego and he will take the first, essential step.

Who knows, maybe he's the one you've been dreaming about all along.

11. He offers to pay

Like a real gentleman, he won't make you pay for the restaurant food, he will pay for both of you.

This is an obvious sign that he has a secret crush on you and that he wants to please you.

He just wants to imply that he is a man who always treats women with respect.

Plus he's not a curmudgeon and while it doesn't matter that he paid for everything, whether the two of you are going to be on a second date or not, it shows that he has morals and follows them, even if that's not good for you at times him is.

12. He compliments you

You can't remember ever meeting him where he didn't compliment you.

A man like him always has some nice, warm words for you and he can really help make you feel special and good, no matter how badly you are in a given moment.

Well, every woman likes compliments, but when you get compliments from the man you know has a crush on you, they are even more special.

That's something every woman likes to hear.

So if you have someone telling you that you are smart or pretty, that is a sign that they want to be more than just a friend to you.

13. He's protective

When a man protects you, it's always a sign that he has strong feelings for you.

Because, frankly, not every man is protective of every woman he meets.

It'll only be for a special one, and in this case, it's you.

So, if he's defending you from people who want to harm you, it's a sign that he secretly loves you but is afraid to admit it.

Maybe he thinks he's not good enough for you, or maybe he's waiting for you to show that you like him too.

But whatever the reason, he cannot hide his real feelings and he will continue to stay with you as long as you let him.

14. He says “we” instead of “I”

When he tells you about a future event, he says “we” instead of “I” because he wants to make plans with you.

It's a sign that he already considers you his girlfriend and doesn't mind spending the rest of his life with you.

The truth is, he's secretly in love with you and he's trying to find ways to show you.

He wants to impress you, but then again, he doesn't want to act like an idiot in front of you.

So, if you see him go out of his way to please you, help him by showing that you like what he does for you.

15. He gets jealous when another man speaks to you

Not only will he get jealous when another man approaches you, he'll act that way too if you mention a guy you've talked to recently.

He will believe that he is in danger because there is a possibility that another man will steal you.

So don't be surprised if he gets angry when you mention another man, even if you are not officially dating.

This is just his defense mechanism and he cannot control it.

He does his best to make a perfect impression, but he can't fight his feelings.

So, if this type of behavior bothers you, talk to him and tell him that you are not together and that he cannot act like that.

On the other hand, if you think it's okay then just let him do what he thinks is right.

16. He smiles a lot when he's with you

If a guy is secretly in love with you, he's more likely to be more inclined to smile a lot than a guy who doesn't care too much about you.

So if he smiles, that's a good sign.

It means he has a crush on you, and by smiling and making you feel good, he wants you to take the first step.

Sentences like: "I love your jokes!" or "I feel so great with you!" are enough for him to know that he means more to you than just a friend.

If you show him that you like him, he will go out of his way and do everything to make you feel good.

You should keep in mind that it is quite difficult for a man to reveal his true feelings, so respect all his efforts and love for you.

It will mean a lot to him.

17. He asks for your opinion

When a man asks your opinion, it means that you are special to him.

It's a sign that he thinks you are smart enough to help him decide about some things that are going to happen in his life.

Since he is secretly in love with you, he thinks about your future together and he wants to see how you would deal with a difficult situation if you were in his shoes.

Anyway, when he asks your opinion, it's another positive sign of his love for you.

And I am sure that in time he will muster enough courage to confess his feelings to you and not hide them anymore.

18. He respects you

There is an old saying that goes something like this: "Where there is no respect, there is no love!"

It means that every man who is in love with a woman must respect and love her. You might be wondering why, right?

Well, when you spend a long time with someone in a marriage, love wanes and what remains is respect.

I'm not saying this is a bad thing, it's just something natural that happens to all of us.

When you are young you are in love and respect one another, but by the time you are 70 you will appreciate other things more, such as mutual respect, support, and the time you can spend with your significant other.

So if you have respect, you have it all - trust me!